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novel release

Geneva — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 17:58:39 GMT

Hello,

I'm happy to announce the release of my first lesbian novel --"Made For You" --by a tiny, independent publishing house based in Wisconsin, Alpha World Press.

Please check it out if you have time and inclination.

I'm always happy to talk with writers and readers, or anyone for that matter, so I hope to hear from you.

Cheers and thank you!

Best,

Geneva

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call schwartzenegger re: gay marriage

clancy — Mon, 26 May 2008 06:07:03 GMT

Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger is polling reaction to the California Supreme Court decision overturning the ban on gay marriage. Most of the response has been in OPPOSITION to the court action.

To vote in SUPPORT of the Supreme Court's decision on LGBT marriage:

1. Call 1-916-445-2841
2. When prompted, press 1, 5, 1, 1.

Send this note to other supporters..

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Agostina Laneri from Bravo

Randy — Wed, 07 May 2008 18:32:02 GMT

Hosted By: Briana Stockton & Holly J.D.

Special Guest: Agostina Laneri from Bravo TV's "Workout"
& "Pumkin" from VH1's Flavor of Love!

When: Saturday, May 17th (& every 3rd Saturday of the Month, thereafter)
from 10:00 PM to 2:00 AM

Where: The Cat Club
1190 Folsom @ 8th
San Francisco, CA 94101

Description:
Briana Stockton & Holly J.D.

DJ's Sysko & Jay-R
Guest DJ Movtive &
Guest DJ Eruption
Hottest 80's & Hip Hop
$7 before 11 & $10 after

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SF Lesbian Photography Club

Janet — Tue, 31 Jul 2007 00:01:06 GMT

For those who are interested. We are:

As the name suggests, a club for lesbians to come together as a group and share our digital photography (photos, know-hows, experiences, etc). We can discuss online or bring our cameras and meet off-line for local excursions and discussions over coffee and drinks. All levels welcome.

sflesbianphotoclub (name of yahoo group)

Thanks for reading!

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New Tribe: Age Play Among Women

GalaxyGirl — Thu, 20 Mar 2008 15:59:57 GMT

Hoping you'll join or spread the word.

Thanks, GalaxyGirl

Age Play Between Women Tribe: This tribe is intended to be a place to discuss age play between and among women. In this context, age play refers to the exploration of affectional and/or sexual relationships between women who are in real life of the age of consent but who wish to role play relationships or interactions in which there is an age differential, such as mother/daugher, aunt/niece, baby sitter/girl, teacher/student, coach/player, etc. This tribe does not concern pedophilia, as all discussions are assumed to concern real life adults. Since there are other tribes that littles can join as littles, the moderator intends this tribe to be a place for adult discussion of age play.

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New!

Thu, 20 Mar 2008 03:25:05 GMT

Just wanted to say hello and I'm also wondering, anyone live in san jose area?

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Pomosexuality and the Death of the Label

Jaimee — Thu, 20 Mar 2008 02:02:47 GMT

BECAUSE LABELS ARE FOR CLOTHING... NOT PEOPLE.

Pomosexuality (short for postmodern sexuality) refers to a nonorientation in which people disregard sexual labels altogether. While it is convenient to sort everyone into a handful of different groups - homosexual, bisexual, heterosexual - pomosexuality argues that not only can these words and categories not do justice to the complexity of human sexuality, but are also grand illusions socially constructed to maintain a state of separateness between people. Like most other things in life, sexual orientation and/or gender identity isn't a black and white, either/or experience for many of us. More appropriately, it is best described as a fluid and incalculably unique journey that is beyond definition. Pomosexuality literally means anything you want it to mean. It means anything goes. And it represents an end to all the confusion, oppression, fear, and restraint that comes with trying to identify with a restrictive label.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OXxODfmU_iU

Join the new social network that is introducing the concept of pomosexuality to the masses, revolutionizing the way the world views sexuality and gender. http://wWw.POMOWORLD.com

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womens weekend in guerneville 5.15-5.18

shamanstar — Mon, 17 Mar 2008 23:24:31 GMT

hey! womens weekend is may 15-18 a the russian river in guerneville. it is usually a good time but different people are organizing it this year and i am super excited! i am going to be djing a couple of gigs and really want to get some cool people to come play with us out at the river in the country! it is so beautiful out there and there are a lot of places to rent and campgrounds. be sure to reserve lodging now because it gets filled up quick. there is info about the event here- www.myspace.com/russianriv...mensweekend

i love electronica as well as almost every other genre so if you plan on coming, let me know what you like to listen to so i can make sure to play some.

lets dance and create something special!!!

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Looking in Western Massacushetts

hobbit — Sat, 07 Apr 2007 14:27:43 GMT

Looking for friends and playmates in Western Mass .... Are you other there? You hippie, Pagan/wiccan, Deadhead-ish type dykes? Please,please,please ... new to the area and feeling a little isolated.

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Jackie Warner in SF

Randy — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 19:03:00 GMT

Hosted By: Briana Stockton & Holly J.D.
w/ Special Guest: JACKIE WARNER

When: Saturday, January 19th (& every 3rd Saturday of the Month, thereafter)
from 10:00 PM to 3:00 AM

Where: The Cat Club
1190 Folsom @ 8th
San Francisco, CA 94101

Description:
Briana Stockton & Holly J.D.
DJ's Sysko & JR
Guest DJ Movtive & DJ Eruption
Hottest 80's & Hip Hop
$7 before 11 & $10 after

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Thanks to all of you.

Sat, 29 Dec 2007 21:56:30 GMT

I am quitting this tribe though anyways.

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I'm so scared.

Mon, 24 Dec 2007 01:20:33 GMT

A whole tribe full of women I don't know what to do!

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Questioning

mamagaea — Sat, 05 Jan 2008 22:56:50 GMT

I read through that last gigantic thread. While I agree that much of it (especially down near the bottom) wasn't appropriate for this list, I question those who questioned most of it.

Shouldn't we be able to discuss anything on this list that pertains to female-female relationships?

This isn't strictly a hookup tribe, is it? For I would be sad if it were. We are tribe in and amongst ourselves. Why should we limit what we talk about?

Mama Gaea

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RIP Benazir Bhutto

Schirin — Fri, 28 Dec 2007 05:40:27 GMT

What a lovely, strong, courageous, peaceful woman. May her legacy live on and make the world a better place for peace, for women everywhere. My heart broke with I found out this morning. :-(

Pakistan's Bhutto assassinated
Attack jeopardizes elections, path to democracy in nuclear-armed nation

RAWALPINDI, Pakistan - Enraged crowds rioted across Pakistan and hopes for democracy hung by a thread after Benazir Bhutto was gunned down as she waved to supporters from the sunroof of her armored vehicle.

The death of President Pervez Musharraf's most powerful opponent threw the nation into chaos just 12 days before elections and threatened its already unsteady role as a key fighter against Islamic terror.

The murder of Bhutto, one of Pakistan's most famous and enduring politicians, sparked violence that killed at least nine people and plunged efforts to restore democracy to this nuclear-armed U.S. ally into turmoil.

Another opposition politician, Nawaz Sharif, announced he was boycotting Jan. 8 parliamentary elections in which Bhutto was hoping to recapture the premiership, and Musharraf reportedly weighed canceling the poll.

In Islamabad and Washington, U.S. diplomats urged that the elections should not be postponed and strongly advised against a reimposition of emergency rule that Musharraf had lifted just weeks ago.

Bhutto, a former prime minister, was struck down amid scenes of blood and chaos as an unknown gunman opened fire and, according to witnesses and police, blew himself up, killing 20 other people.

Musharraf blamed Islamic terrorists, pledging in a nationally televised speech that "we will not rest until we eliminate these terrorists and root them out."

President Bush, who spoke briefly by phone with Musharraf, looked tense as he spoke to reporters, denouncing the "murderous extremists who are trying to undermine Pakistan's democracy."

Bhutto's death closed yet another grim chapter in Pakistan's bloodstained history, 28 years after her father, Zulfiqar Ali Bhutto, another ex-prime minister, was hanged by a military dictatorship in the same northern city where she was killed.

Her death left her Pakistan People's Party leaderless and plunged the Muslim nation of 150 million into violence and recriminations, with Musharraf blaming Muslim extremists and Bhutto supporters accusing his government of failing to protect her in the wake of death threats and previous attempts on her life.

As the news of Bhutto's death spread, supporters gathered at the hospital where she had been taken, smashed glass doors, stoned cars and chanted, "Killer, Killer, Musharraf."

At least nine people were killed in the violence across the nation.

Musharraf called senior staff into an emergency meeting to discuss a response to the killing and whether to postpone the election, an Interior Ministry official said, speaking on condition of anonymity because of the sensitivity of the talks. Musharraf also announced three days of mourning for Bhutto, with all businesses, schools and banks to close.

The killing appeared to shut off a possible avenue for a credible return to democracy after eight years under Musharraf's increasingly unpopular rule, and left a string of unanswered questions, chiefly whether it could strengthen Musharraf by eliminating a strong rival, or weaken him by sparking uncontrollable riots.

The U.S. was struggling to reformulate its plan to stabilize the country based on a rapprochement between Bhutto and Musharraf. Bhutto had returned in October after nearly a decade in exile hoping for a power-sharing deal with Musharraf, but had become his fierce critic, accusing elements in the ruling party of backing militants to kill her.

Pakistani analysts see gloom
"This assassination is the most serious setback for democracy in Pakistan," said Rasul Baksh Rais, a political scientist at Lahore's University of Management Sciences. "It shows extremists are powerful enough to disrupt the democratic process."

Analyst Talat Masood, a retired general, said: "Conditions in the country have reached a point where it is too dangerous for political parties to operate."

Sharif, another former premier who now leads an opposition party, demanded Musharraf resign immediately and announced his party would boycott the elections, seen as vital to restoring democracy after eight years of authoritarian rule under Musharraf. Sharif also called for the resignation of Musharraf, a former army chief who toppled Sharif in a 1999 coup.

"Musharraf is the cause of all the problems. The federation of Pakistan cannot remain intact in the presence of President Musharraf," he said.

Next to Musharraf, Bhutto, 54, was the best known political figure in the country, serving two terms as prime minister between 1988 and 1996. An instantly recognizable figure with graceful features under an ever-present head scarf, she bore the legacy of her hanged father and was respected in the West for her liberal outlook and determination to combat Islamic extremism.

It was a theme she had often returned to in recent campaign speeches.

Addressing more than 5,000 supporters Thursday in Rawalpindi, a garrison city and former capital, Bhutto dismissed the notion that Pakistan needed foreigners to help it quell resurgent militants linked to the Taliban and al Qaida in the area bordering Afghanistan.

"Why should foreign troops come in? We can take care of this, I can take care of this, you can take care of this," she said.

Bhutto official watches terror unfold
As Bhutto left the rally in a white SUV, youths chanted her name and supportive slogans, said Sardar Qamar Hayyat, an official from Bhutto's party who was about 10 yards away.

Despite the danger of physical exposure, a smiling Bhutto stuck her head out of the sunroof and responded, he said.

"Then I saw a thin young man jumping toward her vehicle from the back and opening fire. Moments later, I saw her speeding vehicle going away. That was the time when I heard a blast and fell down," he said.

Bhutto was rushed into surgery. A doctor on the surgical team said a bullet in the back of her neck damaged her spinal cord before exiting from the side of her head. Another bullet pierced the back of her shoulder and came out through her chest, he said on condition of anonymity because he was not authorized to speak to the media. She was given an open-heart massage, but the spinal-cord damage was too great, he said.

"At 6:16 p.m. she expired," said Wasif Ali Khan, a member of Bhutto's party who was at Rawalpindi General Hospital.

Hours later, supporters carried Bhutto's body out of the hospital in a plain wooden coffin and sent it for burial in her ancestral home near the southern city of Larkana.

Bhutto, who was married with three children, had returned to Pakistan from nearly a decade in exile on Oct. 18, and her homecoming parade in Karachi was also targeted by a suicide attacker, who killed more than 140 people. She narrowly escaped injury.

Rawalpindi, a garrison city and former capital, has a history of political violence. The park where Bhutto made her last speech is the same one where the country's first prime minister, Liaquat Ali Khan, was shot to death in 1951. It is named after him.

President Pervez Musharraf survived two bombing attacks in Rawalpindi in 2003. Earlier that year, Khalid Shaikh Mohammed, alleged mastermind of the 9/11 attacks, was captured in Rawalpindi. In recent weeks, suicide bombers have repeatedly targeted security forces in Rawalpindi.

Bhutto's father was hanged in 1979 in Rawalpindi on charges of conspiracy to murder — an execution that led to violent protests across the country similar to those that raged across the country Thursday.

Hopes dashed for democracy
Thursday's rally was Bhutto's first since returning to Pakistan, Musharraf having forced her to scrap a previous meeting here last month citing security fears. Hundreds of riot police manned security checkpoints at the park.

Afghan President Hamid Karzai, who met with Bhutto just hours before her death, called her a brave woman with a clear vision "for her own country, for Afghanistan and for the region — a vision of democracy and prosperity and peace."

Rep. Patrick Kennedy, D-R.I., visiting Pakistan with Sen. Arlen Specter, R-Pa., said he was just leaving his hotel room for dinner with Bhutto at her home when he got the news.

"I couldn't believe it," he told The Associated Press by phone. "Her death really dashed the hope of many here in Pakistan, and that's why there's so much disillusionment and anger being vented through these protests that are lighting up the sky tonight as people set fires all over the countryside."

One man was killed in a shootout between police and protesters in Tando Allahyar, a town 120 miles north of Karachi, Pakistan's commercial hub, said Mayor Kanwar Naveed. Four others were killed in Karachi, two were killed elsewhere in the southern Sindh province and two in Lahore, police said.

Karachi shopkeepers quickly shuttered their stores as protesters burned vehicles, a gas station and tires on the roads, said Fayyaz Leghri, a local police official. Gunmen shot and wounded two police officers, he said.

Bhutto's supporters in many towns burned banks, shops and state-run grocery stores. Some torched ruling party election offices, according to Pakistani media.

Authorities would deploy troops to stop violence if needed, said Akhtar Zamin, home minister for Sindh province.

The U.N. Security Council vigorously denounced the killing and urged "all Pakistanis to exercise restraint and maintain stability in the country."

© 2007 The Associated Press. All rights reserved. This material may not be published, broadcast, rewritten or redistributed.
URL: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22406555/

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Any metrowest Massachusetts grrls?

AetherVeina — Fri, 24 Aug 2007 19:29:50 GMT

*looking hopeful*

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Naughty Gifts for Naughty Adults

Sat, 24 Nov 2007 00:54:40 GMT

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Greetings and question

mamagaea — Tue, 13 Nov 2007 19:01:00 GMT

jumping in here. Hope I don't splash too many people.

Does anyone have any suggestions for a BBW Bi-girl who wants to date other BBW women? I'm completely new and don't have a clue.

Blessings,
MG

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Seeking queer triads for research!

sunny — Sat, 22 Sep 2007 22:54:04 GMT

My name is Sunny. I am a graduate student in the Sexuality Studies program at San Francisco State University. I am conducting research on polyamory. The aim of my study is to explore how individuals in queer polyamorous triads discuss love in their relationships. I am in search of individuals in queer, long-term (one year or longer), polyamorous triads to interview. Individuals must identify themselves and their relationships as queer, and the triads must be three people who are all sexually and romantically involved with one another.

Participating in this study will entail a 45-90 minute one-on-one interview at a comfortable and private location convenient for both of us to discuss your experiences and feelings of love while in a triad.

If you are currently in a queer, long-term (one year or longer), triad relationship and are interested in participating in the study, please contact me!

smnordmarken@yahoo.com
(415) 516-0908

I am currently seeking people to interview! Please contact me as soon as possible if you would like to participate.

Thank you!
Sunny

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santa fe?

desertspider — Tue, 21 Aug 2007 04:01:57 GMT

any writers/artists from santa fe in this tribe?

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Asian chicks oil wrestling

Schirin — Thu, 14 Jun 2007 23:52:29 GMT

And no dudes watching! This is hilarious. I especially like the slomo and close-ups. Haha.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?search=&mode=related&v=6ZUCqsni9II

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So much !

Gilles — Sat, 14 Jul 2007 03:16:23 GMT

Most of men love lesbians. Why do they do it so much ?

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Seeking Bi-Wife for Loving Poly Fidelity Tantra Joyfull Blissful Family fun! ---> Lets Connect Today!

SpeakingEagle — Mon, 16 Jul 2007 12:30:56 GMT

Greetings New Friends/Family!

We are a joyfull sexy Tantra Poly Fidelity Family here in
Huntsville Alabama 35810

We are seeking a Bi-Wife to share our love and life
in this poly fidelity family of living spirit!

Must be Fit, Healthy, d/d free, Positive-No Drama
and Love Love Love Tantra-Conscious Living!

If you are longing for a truely conscious family full of love fun and joy
that is long term, write us an email and let us know what you interest are.

All Super Bi-Mothers with Children are welcome, (we have children also!)
Lets build a lasting Friendship and create a wonderful conscious family together!
Light and Love!
Larry and Alberta

PS
if you would like to connect with us directly today,
please send us an email with your interests and some
pictures of you to atkinsonlarry@yahoo.com

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Looking for Super hot Bisexual/Lesbian women

MISSMORGAN — Mon, 04 Jun 2007 19:49:38 GMT

Move over L-Word and make room for a “real” TV Show about Lesbians…

Every hot Lesbian is dying to meet the girl of her dreams, right?

Well, girls, here’s your chance! One of the hottest Maxim women is looking for love, in lots of girly places! This is the girl of your dreams who works hard, and looks good doing it…A superstar with a hot music career, a fashion line, and her own Myspace throne, this girl like’s it crazy!

Do you have what it takes? Any woman in her right mind would give it a chance, right? Casting now for a high profile fun TV network, this reality show will showcase 20 of the most loveable Lesbians we can find to live with our superstar hottie!

She’s in charge of choosing her favorite lucky woman and who knows, maybe this fairytale ends in true love………

Any hot girl between the ages of 21-27 is invited to send us your picture, a brief description of yourself, and tell us why she will fall madly in love with you. This is a super fun, “Reality Experience” in a hot mansion with lots of other beautiful women.

Prepare to move-in, but don’t bring an entourage…girls in little towns, pack your bags and come have fun with a big city girl! We are trying to find her the best of the best from all over the nation, and who knows, you might make her dreams come true!

Please tell me you have what it takes, and love gorgeous women because we want to help you fall in love with one of the best out there!

Email us now, so that we can schedule an interview. People living outside major US cities, please send a short 3 -5 minute video or contact us for the closest major casting city.

Be a part of history in the first Reality House TV show for Lesbians… 20 hot women race to the finish line for the heart of a superstar…….. Don’t miss-out on this amazing experience!

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Queer Women's Camp at Burning Man this year: Camp Beaverton for Wayward Girls...

REiD — Mon, 18 Jun 2007 17:58:32 GMT

Hey, everyone!

Just wanted to post a "heads up" regarding Burning Man this year and a queer women's camp that is birthing itself into existence: "Camp Beaverton, Camp for Wayward Girls"...

We've got our second organizational call June 21st. Join us, why don'cha! I've also included a cut and paste announcement you can FWD to your queer gal pals and transfolk who might want to be on the call, too, and/or know of Beaverton's existence. Please post, FWD, blab, text, and spread the word!

If you want to learn more about what we're up to, go to tribes.tribe.net/campbeaverton

Queerly yours,
REiD

Here's the cut and paste....

Wayward Women Campers of Black Rock City!

Going to the Burning Man Arts Festival this year? Not going, but want to help create a queer women's oasis on the playa?

Please join us for our second "Camp Beaverton, Camp for Wayward Girls" organizational call and have a say and help us organize this extraordinary concept...

And please tell all your queer gal pals and help us raise awareness. Whether you will be camping with us or just want to lend your creative wit and wisdom, dial up and participate. : )

Thursday, June 21, 2007
Start Time: 9:00 PM East Coast Time/6:00 PM West Coast Time
End Time: Should last about an hour
Dial-in Number: 1-712-945-0210 (Iowa)
Participant Access Code: 232837 (then hit the pound # key)

Please RSVP if you think you'll be joining us so we know how many lines to reserve for the call!

Questions? Email or call - reid@cuddleparty.com or 917.207.4554
And if you want to learn more about what we're up to, go to tribes.tribe.net/campbeaverton

Can't wait!

Tail-smacking goodness,
Your Busy Beaverton Camp Counselors

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anybody in the las vegas area?

kel. — Sat, 21 Apr 2007 01:17:20 GMT

im from jersey, staying here with a friend for a few months...
looking for some cool people to chill with....

holla~ xo

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6/01 Primal "Pulse" bi/queer erotic party, in SF

edukink — Thu, 31 May 2007 08:20:28 GMT

Reminder - It's this Friday.

This is a mixed energy event. Wide range of ages (18+) and queerness (bi, butch, femme, trans, gender queer, leather, etc). A unique event, open to any non-mainstream (hetero-normative) sexuality. We also transform the venue.

- -
Primal "Pulse"

A Private, Queer Erotic Party
Hosted by Iain & Angela of EduKink

Friday, June 1, 2007, 8 pm – 1 am
SF Citadel, 1277 Mission Street, at Ninth Street
$20 per person

The Primal parties are alternative sexuality parties for queer and queer-friendly adults, celebrating all genders, orientations, and preferences.

You must be on the invitation list to attend. Anyone 18 or older with a positive, personal interest in celebrating sexuality in all its flavors, colors, shapes, and expressions, may apply at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/EduKink-Erotic-Events

Strict Dress code. Basics:
- Ordinary street clothes not permitted.
- Red sexy attire admired, but not required.
- Trans folk may dress as they please.

Featuring live music by Cuir Bleu
(CuirBleu.com)

Feel the pulse … .. low beat of the drum … .. feel it throbbing in your veins … .. the rhythm of sex … ..
… .. the pulse … .. … .. pulse … .. … .. pulse … .. … .. Feel it.

For more information, see http://EduKink.org/Primal

Do not forward this message to other lists without permission.

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new to group

laughingnewborn — Thu, 24 May 2007 03:50:16 GMT

Hey there.
I am a 37 y.o. bi woman, graduating soon in a professional degree, fine artist, pretty open minded, interested in lots of things... looking for friends in my area of Portland Oregon.

If you're interested, stop by my page and/or drop me a note.

Peace,
-Serena

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Women in the SF Bay area -- SF Bay Girls Who Wanna Meet Girls Tribe event :-)

Thu, 05 Apr 2007 22:05:49 GMT

Hello gals -- if you live in the SF Bay area (quite a few of you already are in the SFBay Girls Who Wanna Meet Girls tribe currently) the SFBay Girls Who Wanna Meet Girls tribe is having another event coming up on the last Friday of this month in the East Bay.

The event listing should be in within the event listings tab of this tribe...here's the URL for the event below:

http://sanfrancisco.tribe.net/event/SF-Bay-Girls-Who-Wanna-Meet-Girls-event-April-27-Pasta-Pomodora-in-Oakland/oakland-ca-94618/dcd616bc-6f15-4eff-95c5-34d3a26710a4

Moderator -- let me know if this is off topic and I'll understand if this thread needs to be removed.. :)

Thanks!

Carrie
Moderator of SBGWMG

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New to Tribe

Mon, 26 Mar 2007 02:32:01 GMT

My name is Ami and I just started a new tribe for people who love diffrently. No judgements. just a place to come talk about anything.
http://tribes.tribe.net/diffrentkindoflove

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Do lesbians share more intimacy than hetero couples?

aschleigh — Mon, 26 Feb 2007 22:20:01 GMT

I just got done with a relationship with a man where he was so affraid of intimacy. I have never had a relationship with a women but I imagine it would be quite intense intimacy wise. Do you think Lesbians have more intimacy ( emotional, spiritual, etc.. ) than hetero couples or does it just depend on the person?.
Of course it dependends on the person but in my relationships with women the desire for intimacy seems greater.
Or maybe it's with age we drop some of the ego that makes intimacy hard.
Anyway , your thoughts are appriciated.

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Research on Bisexuality and Well-Being- Survey now open

Tera — Fri, 16 Mar 2007 01:07:41 GMT

Are you a bisexual female and at least 18 years old?

- You are invited to participate in an anonymous on
line survey concerning sexual experience and
feelings.
- This research is being conducted by a graduate
student at the California School of Professional
Psychology/Alliant International University.
- Participation will take approximately 60 to 70
minutes
- All Participants will be entered in a lottery for a
chance to win one of two raffle prizes for $100

- If you are interested, go to
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.asp?u=165663204675

- For more information or questions email:
bisexualityresearch@yahoo.com

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New Group: Bisexual Women's Network

Jodie — Thu, 15 Mar 2007 00:22:02 GMT

The Bisexual Women's Network (BWN) is dedicated to support and resources for Bisexual and Bi-Curious women.

We are an open-minded, free spirited, s.e.x-positive group for bisexual women who are married, in a long term relationship, or single, who seek to make new connections and network with other strong, intelligent, sexy, bisexual women in the SF Bay Area.

We hope this will be a drama-free environment where we can plan social events, swap stories and information, support and share our lives with each other.

Please feel free to invite your Bisexual girl friends, pass the word along to those other local positive women in your life looking to make great connections, friends, and gain the much needed support from our community.

Here is the link:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BisexualWomensNetwork/

~Jodie~

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sex tips

Elke — Fri, 09 Mar 2007 08:02:43 GMT

a lovely lady is coming to visit me very soon and i want to do everything in my power to give her the utmost pleasure... can everyone please tell me their favorites and (secret) sex tricks?
(((so excited)))

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IS THERE ANY BI GIRL'S AT THE RAINBOW ROOM IN HAYWARD CA?

Fri, 09 Mar 2007 00:32:26 GMT

i am hopeing to go there tonight but i am looking for bi girls or mtf girls are thay there? any girls want to meet me? i am dawn.

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That "look"

Schirin — Mon, 05 Mar 2007 04:23:33 GMT

Do you have a look in a girl that makes you purr? I'm watching America's Top Model on right now, it's a new season, and there's one that is hot, hot, hot. Egads, I love thin women with gorgeous faces and short hair. This one is blonde. I had to laugh, another one was giving her a hard time, this Russian chick, and said she looked "masculine." Masculine, my ass. That girl is so fine!

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Just Saying Hi There!

Gem — Mon, 26 Feb 2007 18:27:35 GMT

Hey! I'm new to the tribe, my name is Gem. (I've recently joined a lot of tribes, so sorry if you keep seeing me everywhere!) I'm always open to making new friends so if you ever want to send me a message, please do. Umm.. okay well that's all. Just wanted to say hi!
HEARTS
Gem

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so sick of "bi" stigma

lizabat — Wed, 15 Feb 2006 04:19:28 GMT

ok so I'm bi. people automatically assume.
1. that I'll do it with just about anyone
2. that that means that I automatically want to have a three way with them and their woman/man
3. that I'm poly
4. that I'm bi to get attention from guys

does anyone else have these problems with other people's stereotypes of bi?
and if you tell a guy you're lez you ever have them try to challange it? like some cock who says "I'll MAKE her like dick!"

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SATURDAY NIGHT?

Sarah — Fri, 23 Feb 2007 08:12:15 GMT

any gay/lesbian friendly events going on Saturday night?
I haven't been out in a while and I actually have this Saturday night off. (woo!) so, if anyone knows of anything fun going on..let me know! : )

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What do you think?

beki — Wed, 07 Feb 2007 06:09:22 GMT

Hi, I'm fairly new here and have been enjoying the threads.

I decided to post this topic because of a recent conversation with some friends of mine who are lesbian.

They stated that they feel that they should still be considered lesbian even if they "like occasional dick" (I'm quoting their exact words). They all know I'm bi and I couldn't help laughing and saying "OH, so you're bi but not willing to admit it, eh?" And they all insisted (quite spiritedly I might add) that they can be "lesbian identified" and still have casual sex with men every now and again.

What do you think? Are they actually closet bi girls or is there really such a thing as lesbians who enjoy sex with men once in a while?

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a suggestion : to replace 'bi'

meowfix — Fri, 03 Nov 2006 21:53:41 GMT

as, I've loved many of both genders, and would espouse a third, the 2 spirit ... my preference has always been 'selectively sexual' ...

i think that gives me enough room to try what I like and be open to what I might, like (currently, happily involved with a woman who's a 2spirit, two+ years )

thinking we could cause our own label revolution! who's game? Eileen

(I've been lurking for awhile, trying to name and reconcile, my 'bent' but, am looking to 'show up,' now)

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Lesbian to bi

SarynAngel — Mon, 12 Feb 2007 21:13:30 GMT

If you are a woman, in a long term committed (not open) relationship with another woman, and have been identifying as lesbian - why would you start identifying as bi-sexual?

To me, this implies you are experiencing desire for men. I have several friends who identify as bi while they are with a man, then when they break up, identify as lesbian... then later go back to being bi.

I personally don't understand changing status depending on what relationship you are in. Before I had my first relationship with a woman, I identifed as bi. However, after dating both sexes, I came to the realization that I'm lesbian. I can find a man attractive and beautiful but have no desire to get involved with one.

What are your thoughts?

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play parties

myla77 — Wed, 09 Aug 2006 02:41:30 GMT

does anyone know if there is play parties in sacramento let me know thanks

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cpl looking for bi gal's in the east bay area!!!

JOHNNY — Fri, 09 Feb 2007 19:13:27 GMT

hi there, i am johnny i am a straight guy an my wife is bi. we are looking for a bi gal's to get togeter for fun time's in the east bay area. if your intrasted please feel free to get intouch with me or her on here then we will give you our number. if you want to just play with her i am cool with that too. she is gothvamp on here thanks.

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Taking Control of My Life (christianity and sexuality)

Lilian — Thu, 09 Nov 2006 20:36:51 GMT

So this year is the year that I've decided to take control of my life and get out there and learn and experience all that I have been curious about all these many years (41 if you really must know), and part of my quest was religion and sexualtiy. I joined a christian church (and as a total liberal, it has been quite difficult for me, but it has all been about my relationship with God, not with the churchs view points, which are SO different from mine, but oh well). The second part was finally getting the nerve up to put to rest my curiosity about being with another woman, so I put up an add on craigslist (really didn't know where else to start to tell you the truth) and after sorting through all the nonsense that was emailed to me ("no thank you, I don't want to join your husband/boyfriend and you") . I found someone like me that wants to take it slow and easy, become friends first and then see what developes between us. I guess my problem is that even though I'm very liberal, I was raised "lapse-catholic", and Latina to boot, I'm wondering if and/or when the time comes to "put-up or shut-up" whether I will go through with it. Any insights will be appareciated (and please, if you are a "hater" or just want to rant and rave about straight women wanting to be with another woman because its a "fad", please don't respond to this post, as I am totally not there, too old to be chasing any "fad"s, ya know?).

Thanks!

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Lesbian Krishnas

Wed, 07 Feb 2007 22:30:47 GMT

Yes there are some around. I just started a tribe at http://tribes.tribe.net/lesbians-krishna . If you are at all interested come on over and give it some time. I will be there at least to answer any questions and chat.

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Hello ...

Mon, 06 Nov 2006 06:20:57 GMT

Hello all,
I just joined the tribe ...I thought I posted a intro..I guess I didn't ..Oops
So I just wanted to Hello and I hope all had a wonderful weekend!!!
Balaburk

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Those French know how to do advertising

Schirin — Mon, 20 Nov 2006 22:26:32 GMT

Virtual Tooluxe combines the interactiveness of the Subservient Chicken with the some of the boldness of Shai to bring us two playful clerks in a fashion boutique that the site apparently promotes. Brush up on your French, too, or use Babel Fish. To save you some time, the word for "undress" that works is deshabillez. I like how you can subscribe to their list and receive secret codes for more action.

http://www.virtualtooluxeshop.com

Select you are "majeur"

Type in:
la fille entre dans le magasin

(girl enters store)

It's pretty fun. :-)

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Sorry

NarcissaNoir — Mon, 06 Nov 2006 04:12:31 GMT

hi i'm new to this tribe and i am sorry I have not introduced myself. Iam millie from Tempe Arizona but i love san francisco and i'm looking to network and meet like minded individuals for chat or just to hang out :)

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Imagine: you and me

Ally — Mon, 06 Nov 2006 07:49:15 GMT

This is an awesome movie...about a woman who is due to marry...and then falls in love with the flower arrangement girl who turns out to be lesbian...very sweet...there goes the bride...you'll have to watch it to see what happens in the end...sweet movie...great that it is pro bi, pro lesbian...it's only recently come out in South African, could've come out in America etc last year even...haha...

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NEW HERE

Ally — Mon, 16 Oct 2006 14:31:57 GMT

Hey,im new...cant wait to meet people in this tribe...i look forward to corresponding...

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Awesome commercials

Schirin — Fri, 29 Sep 2006 04:13:26 GMT

I had to share these :-)

http://www.kontraband.com/show/show.asp?ID=4535&rtn=index-topten&nsfwfs=yes

http://cmmnews.blogspot.com/2006/09/more-cigar-smut.html

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Welcome to meet Beautiful INTERRACIAL singles!

Thu, 14 Sep 2006 03:19:03 GMT

Sign up a account here:

The best place to meet INTERRACIAL singles in your city or around the world!

Chat online! Search profiles with personal messages, photos, blogs, comments and forum messages from singles that are anxious to meet you!

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All of us in the SF Bay need to go to this...

sonyalynn — Wed, 30 Aug 2006 18:38:22 GMT

http://theexiles.org/forPlay06.htm

Oh, HELL yes. >:}

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Hello!

anna — Thu, 24 Aug 2006 22:14:13 GMT

I am in east bay and would like to meet others in the area. Hope to hear from you soon!

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a song about

clancy — Tue, 22 Aug 2006 21:07:45 GMT

http://www.damnthe.com/video/the_dildo_song_home.html

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Call for Submissions

paradigmbrooklyn — Sat, 12 Aug 2006 18:59:30 GMT

Submit to be an artist or panelist/speaker at Peace Out East. Peace Out East (www.peaceouteast.com) is an annual LGBTQ and allies hip hop cultural festival in NYC, Oct 12-15, 2006. We are looking for music, visual, performance artists and panelists/speakers/scholars. Please see www.peaceouteast.com for details. Don't be scared off by HIP HOP, alternative music and performances considered. Include links to music/art or email for a mailing address. Deadline 9/1/06 NO EXCEPTIONS.

submit to: artists@ peaceouteast.com

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Any one in france???

vero — Fri, 11 Aug 2006 14:21:23 GMT

I just relocated to Paris over a month ago and wonder if there is ANy one of this group there. thanks
Vero

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Queers over 40 tribe

Ms. Fill in the Blank — Sat, 29 Jul 2006 06:29:49 GMT

Hey all , just wanted to put this out there.
I have a queers over 40 tribe. for me Its for men, women, trans etc.
I am trying to get more women in the tribe, to make it more balanced.

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nothing lasts forever...are couples doomed?

len-jammin — Sat, 03 Jun 2006 23:51:17 GMT

does anyone here know any homosexuals that have been together for life? really. i mean die together...in that they have been together for more than 15 years, happily. with regular sex. are we doomed to never last forever. i have learned that nothing lasts forever. we all change and we can't stop change. not in a bad way at all. in a sense we spend soo much energy on keeping what we think we want when we dont truely do what we want. we get tempted and we dont do anything about it. so what happens is we become someone different then we break up with whomever we are with and date their best friend because there really aren't enough lesbians on our same wave length. both my bros are gay and one has been in a relationship for over 7 years. good luck to them i love them both. but. do they have an open relationship? for obvious reasons i do not want to ask, but i figure you would have to find it somewhere else? but i would like to know who is still together. i dont know many. women get bored. we are totally fine "just hanging out"...if our gay community is going to get bigger are we going to evolve into a society that doesn't stay together longer than five years? maybe ten? is this our future? i am a true believer in love and staying together as i have had my dreams since i was little. i am just curious. and women out there...you know what its like do you not? do you get bored too easily? what is that about?

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All right I'm going for it

lilsheba — Sat, 18 Mar 2006 17:56:47 GMT

Hey all, I'm in Portland OR, 40 years old, bi female, in a poly relationship. I haven't had a girlfriend in a really long time and I miss it. I would love to meet someone and have it develope into more. Check out my profile.

Jeanine

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Meeting girls in LA. crosspost

SarynAngel — Mon, 03 Jul 2006 18:06:00 GMT

So, I'm on the alternative side.. not your stereotypical "L word" LA lesbian... I'm overweight (but well proportioned) AND tattooed, pierced and love to play dress up.

I have a hard time meeting girls in general... for love or friendship.

I have resorted to craigslist... which is a crapshoot in general. I've gotten a lot of responses from Craigslist - but the girls seem to mis-represent themselves, OR they say they are cute and aren't...

It seems like all of these discussion lists are dead ends... Conversations are few and far between.

What is it about that? Is this an all over the place sort of issue? Or is it specific to LA?

I know that this seems to be a common problem - Gay/Straight/Bi... in most communities...

I'd love to hear everyone's experiences... what they have done what they are doing?

*crosspost - I want to see which list gets the most responses, if any.*

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Los Angeles Pride

SarynAngel — Thu, 08 Jun 2006 15:45:20 GMT

Is this weekend, is anyone going to the Parade?

Short notice, but maybe we can set up a meet and greet!

~Saryn

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Sorry I have to vent..................

Tue, 28 Mar 2006 18:48:32 GMT

*breathe*

Ok, I don't want to step on anyone's toes here but I am really frustrated with something.

So I am on a very popular website that is quiet often used for introduction purposes. I have clearly stated several times in my profile that I am a lesbian and I am only looking for other lesbians. I also state that I am on no way looking for men for men/women couples or ANY sexual encounter. However, I get about 10-20 inquires a day from women saying "I am bi and I love women and am looking for a playmate for me and my husband" I am not saying this type of arrangement is bad, but I am not into it. I am a LESBIAN!!!!! Why the hell would I want to fuck your husband!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GGRRRRRR!

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hi there

myla77 — Fri, 26 May 2006 21:54:30 GMT

hi my name is amber and i am new to tribe and not sure how to do all this well this is a tribe id like to join so please let me know if i did this right thanks amber

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workplace and sexuality advice.

lizabat — Thu, 27 Apr 2006 22:49:11 GMT

I work at my school's gym, and when i get out of school I will be at a healthclub setting....
and I live in the midwest
so you can see how me comming out at work would be difficult (locker room, showers etc)
I don't want women to be afraid that I'm hitting on them or checking them out you know?
especially in this setting where people are already very self concious.
but then I sort of feel like a hipocrite that i'm not open about it. I know my sexuaity shouldn't come into play in the workplace, but damnit I AM around a lot of cute girls and it would be nice if I could let them know I was interested LOL
~frustration~
I guess I'd just have to be extra friendly, make friends and test the waters before asking one out. or hope one of them has the balls to ask ME out..I think it would be more professional that way, than to just come out

on a side note, lately while I'm awake I've been attracted to nothing but women, everywhere I go I see a hottie and bite my lower lip! but then when I'm assleep I have these erotic dreams about men...not that this bothers me, I just think it's odd....
anyone else have a similar experience?

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Hot Pants, tonight

Randy — Fri, 28 Apr 2006 21:59:45 GMT

Hot Pants,
Tonight at the Cat Club, 1190 Folsom
2 dancefloors with dj's:
chelsea starr, mike biggz, melissa and special guest dj saratonin from brownies!
10pm-3am
21+ $6
EXCLUSIVELY for QUEER LADIES
& THEIR MALE GUESTS

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So happy to be me, so happy that you're you

Kali-Raw — Wed, 19 Apr 2006 23:37:07 GMT

So, I've noticed a lot of release here, a lot of expression regarding how we feel about stigmas and stupid stereotypes and assumptions that people make about girls who have the exquisite privilege of loving other girls. And I think it's wonderful, just wonderful that we have a space in which to do this. But I just wanted to offer this thread as a place to fill up again, a place where we can find all the space we've made inside of ourselves, where we were carrying around all this negativity that we've just dumped and fill it in with love, acceptance, and the supreme happiness of being who we are. Anyone that wants to join me in doing this is more than welcome. :-)

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labels and society

bhunter — Thu, 13 Apr 2006 05:53:15 GMT

Im having a hard time with how im treated because i look like a dyke. eventhough i am i feel like im trated as a man and i hate that but its not like i have only been out a little while its been 12 years. the older i get the more i dislike labels and society as a whole and to complicate things more ive been with sevreal men and feel likke i dont really fit either place. thats whats been on my mind and i thought this would be a good place to voice it. nayone feel like this or had the same kind of experience

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I might just take advantage this.

Sat, 08 Apr 2006 06:41:01 GMT

Hello, i am a newbie to tribe (as you can see i only have ONE friend) and have decided to take advantage of it to try and........well........pick up chicks. just kidding. no really. dont leave!! okay okay, heres the deal.
i currently live in seattle, and im thinking, im cool, im relativly cute, i sound like a desperate 40-year-old balding man, but HEY. im not above or below this dating thing, damn it! my relationship history is simple. two women....both of whom were in their 30's, and coincidentally, were pretty F---ed up in the head. theatrics notwithstanding, im dont with that.
did i mention im 19? yeah, a lot of you just clicked the back-button i bet.

im at this strange phase in my life where im finally making it my own....im feeling the effects of losing my innocence signifigantly.....im pondering questions and answers to a LOT of lifes questions, as usual, only in MORE intensity.....and my sex drive has been going utterly crazy.....i cant really make heads or tails of it. so of course i think that a nice, steady relationship with someone who cares about me, genuinly, might do me some good.

one thing to note is that i am a pretty intense person/friend/lover. i am very headstrong, outspoken, and trustworthy. that i know for a fact. im extremly compassionate to my fellow human beings, however im not okay with being walked all over. i think i have that boundary pretty well established in myself.

another thing can be described in one word: comedy. i am very much into laughing and making people laugh. there is NOWHERE NEAR enough laughter in the world, and i do my best to offer the planet as much as i can every day without being all too overbearing (which sometimes fails, but who the hell cares??)

so what am i doing here? am i trying to sell myself? am i trying to tell you all what im looking for? kida both actually. but know this: if you are at all interested on connecting with me on any level whatsoever, please dont hesatate to offer your two cent. or four. or fourteen. im more than happy to connect. its what i do. fostering intellectual conversation is a good thing. but then again, so is south park. and everything that has to do with england. :-p

thanks for reading, and dont forget to dance. a LOT.
-Cerial

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SF Women's Film Festival LBGTQ Cinema 4/19 in SF-Discount Tickets on Sale Now!

sfwff — Tue, 11 Apr 2006 06:09:20 GMT

Please forward this message to your friends, family
and colleagues.

SFWFF 2006-Women's Film Festival April 19-30
Get Tickets Before They Sell Out!

Get $2.00 off when you purchase tickets in advance at:
http://sfwff.com/SFWFF/Schedule-Tix.html
Promo Code: Festivalfriends06

We are so excited to bring you over 60 films directed
and co-directed by Women. This year's premieres,
features, and short films truly reflect the vitality
of women filmmakers from around the world! We had a
record-number of submissions this year that reveals
the growth of the festival. Our program includes a
wide range of emerging and established talent as well
as unique voices that are so often underrepresented.
The 2006 SF Women's Film Festival is a necessary step
in the advancement of women in cinema. Women directors
should no longer be left out or considered a side note
in our curriculum, film festivals, film history and
the film industry. These women prove that they can
make films, which excite and engage every viewer. For
schedule and to purchase tickets see the link below.
Thank You
Scarlett, SFWFF 06

The SFWFF 06 will take place from April 19-30, 2006
at Zeum, El Rio, SF Women's Building, Parkway Theater
and Minna Gallery.

Get $2.00 off when you purchase tickets in advance at:
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Promo Code: Festivalfriends06

Opening Night of LGBTQ Cinema
4/19 7pm at El Rio, SF/Admission:$10
Granny Queer - The Late Bloomers (Mamie Queer: Fleuir
Tard) directed by Jacinda Klouwens, (Australia, 2004,
Animation, 7 min.) Granny Queer and her girlfriend
wonder what’s up with their perverted neighbor.

Hung directed by Guinevere Turner (U.S.A, 2005, 12
min) with the help of a magic potion, five lesbian
friends experience a penis for a single day-sunrise to
sunset. The day’s goal is clear, but the means are
more difficult to come by as each puts her best foot
forward to meet a special someone.

The Potluck and Passion directed by Cheryl Dunye
(U.S.A, 1993, 30 min) A lesbian couple plans a
celebration of the year of their passion. It is also
an opportunity for their separate groups of friends to
get to know one another, not; it turns out, with
uniformly happy results.
Dangerouses Kisses directed by Mary Guzman (USA, 2004,
2 min) Kisses get too dangerous it’s time to call in
‘Stop your Stalker.’

Badass Supermama directed by Etang Inyang (U.S.A,
1996, 16 min) is a playful, but questioning personal
exploration of race, gender, sexuality, and adolescent
notions of beauty and representation. These
multi-layered, inter-connected issues are intimately
examined through 1970’s ‘blaxploitation’ movie goddess
Pam Grier and her character, particularly Foxy Brown.

Long Distances directed by Shu-ling Hsien (U.S.A,
2005, 8 min) San Francisco Premiere, An Asian woman is
away from home and involved in a secret relationship.
Long distance calls from her mother evoke ambivalent
feelings.

Wrong Bathroom directed by Shani Heckman (U.S.A,
2005,10 minutes) By going where few documentaries dare
to go, Wrong Bathroom takes us on an intrepid romp
through the unmentionable territory of wash closet
politics through the eyes of people who don't
comfortably fit into the cookie-cutter silhouettes on
the doors of public toilets.

Pup directed by Antonia Kao (U.SA, 2005, 23 min)
follows two out, gay, Christian leather men Master
Skip and Pup Tim – as they prepare to compete in The
Second International Puppy Contest, a leather title
contest for human canines and their handlers.

LESBIAN SHORT FILMS
Transit directed by Kerry Weldon (U.S.A, 2004, 4 min)
Enjoy the simple pleasures of lesbian cruising, subway
style!

Blow directed by Marie Craven (Austrailia, 2002, 7
min) this glossy Aussie short is the sweetest
schoolgirl crush movie you’ve ever seen.

Tina Paulina: Living on Hope Street directed by
Barbara Green/Michelle Boyaner (U.S.A, 2005, 10 min) A
riveting and inspirational documentary portrait of a
lesbian living on the streets of downtown Los Angeles.

Frozen Smile directed by Silas Howard (U.S.A, 2005, 7
min) From By Hook or By Crook writer-director Silas
Howard, this candy-colored comedy serves up a quirky
portrait of a butch and her crazy family.

A Woman Reported directed by Chris J. Russo (U.S.A,
2004, 5 min) Moira Kelly (The West Wing, One Tree
Hill) stars in this gripping thriller about a woman’s
determination to escape a hate crime and return to the
loving arms of her girlfriend. (Inspired by the
Ambrose Bierce short story An Incident At Owl Creek
Bridge.)

Saint Henry directed by Abigail Severance (U.S.A,
2004, 19 min) Ashleigh Ann Wood (Bloodknot) stars as a
girl named Henry who enlists her gay best pal (Max Van
Ville, The Standard) to help search for her father in
this moody and gorgeously produced drama.

The Black Plum directed by Meredyth Wilson (U.S.A,
2005, 15 min) A poignant, evocative fantasy about a
young tomboy’s journey away from her restrictive home.
Stars Kip Pardue. (Loggerheads, Thirteen, But I’m a Cheerleader).

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What would you have done?

starry_night — Fri, 07 Apr 2006 20:43:50 GMT

Ok, advice time! Please tell me what you would do in this case.
It's something that happened to me but I wasn't smart enough to do anything about it.

This beautiful woman approaches you in the dressing rooms of a fashion store.
She tells you she watched you come in with a friend and liked you. You don't get it. She repeats it a second time.
You like her but you're not sure what to say. You help her pick the jacket that looks best on her. She's preparing to leave.
What would you say or do next?????

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your happy medium

Thu, 06 Apr 2006 04:55:25 GMT

Hey!
Wondering what people's thoughts are on their preferred medium to meeting cool girls: online, through
friends only, chance meetings in person???
I find that I've had the most success with girls that I met in person with first
(not necessarily through a friend connection), then built a platonic
friendship with and then went to something more. But this is very rare, perhaps occuring once every couple
of years and then it took a couple of years to get to that point.
I'm relatively new to this online thing, but haven't had luck with the craigslist. Wondering
if anyone has some online success stories in terms of finding a cool girl for more than just a one night stand??

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A wild rant on Butch Femme and Beauty~

luna — Thu, 23 Feb 2006 09:09:12 GMT

Dear Goddesses~~~ONE and ALL
I apologise in advance for grammer,spelling and over simplified, sugar sweet,positive viewpoints~
This wild yet passionate rant is in response to the many views of what may constitute a woman as a FEMME women?I guess it reminds me of a debate going online in a lesbian site chat room as to what constiutes a beautiful woman?I feel the same is true at time in these queastions or arguements as a disgussion.I was so frustrated I wrote a poem and posted it to over 20,000 people to remind women what they might be forgetting in this disgussion...Poetry is my little soapbox to share,,,lust,love,seduction,pain and hopefully in the best of times,,joy,growth and a shift ??
A shift to a more open , hearfelt view,,when things seem small....
From this loving libra who just want the whole world to livelovelaughlearn........
Here goes!!
Yes we as humans love to classify and stereotype ,catagorise and analize every single thing.It is our logic,our brain and our heart of instinct.Yet that view changes as time passes,as do we as people,women,spirits.
For example I may seem or appear as Femme as can be .So affectionate,bubbly,sensitive nuturing and so feminine in all beauty aspects..Allways in dresses,social butterfly,hostess w/mostess....Yet are theses things female really ,?Beside the dresses?Yet I feel as a balanced human,I need to explore sopposed (male )aspects of my personality.Or are they.Mabey just a balance to my full spectrum....Are they butchish or just behaviour that I adopt as a strong,confidant focused female?Are we not a complex ,multi faceted,full spectrum being ?Capable of many emotions,styles,textures and abitities,, to be and become,,anything?Many things at one time?We are capable of so much?We as females are truly so exceptional from our physiology ,anatomy,brain,beauty,stregnth....Must we fit into ny specific mold?Do we need to want to limit ourselves or eachother by these catagories only?
Are we not as women,,the most amazing beautiful creatures not only for our style or physical beauty but our generousity,a willingness to hold ,love,heal,give until it hurts??Fall down and die emotionally and get up to love with a whole heart again??Nomater the age or size or sopposed beauty or butch/femme type,, are not those the things we charish most in ourselves and the women we love?
I believe I feel love or see beauty in the people I hold dear because of how I love them for other qualities..This is why they also shine with beauty to me,,,How they love,,how we love .How it feels to look into this friend or lovers eyes and feel my soul so connected to theirs,,we both might cry.How she may put the car seat in the comfy place when she wants me to drive.When,,,I wake up from a nap ,,with her eyes on me so filled with love ,in the thows of passion or aross the grocerie store vegatable display...,When she brings me fresh ginger even though I ran out of it and never said it,,she just noticed ,,even though,,she doesnt eat ginger....it feels like a dream.When in the middle of the day she kissed your neck lightly and whispers you are my lifes dessert..
All the love I recieve I try to give back,ten times more, as I can,,without expectation or condition.I feel the beauty of knowing the energy goes on,passing through all of us to the world.Like prayer,,loving,compassionate and generous hearts,uniting us all..
The poems I write are about are these moments in life.The best of women I have been blessed to know and the very best of myself.I write about everything I hope to embody and give in life.Whether I have experienced it or simply wish to be the very best I can be as a woman...I might be oversimplifying a diffuclt issue for some.I hope you who read this ,see,I am just throwing out a view....It works for me,,right now...
Sometimes yes it may be sexy as hell when she straps those big black steel toed Boots on..Hiding her sexy self in tight jeans,Or is it the thigh high stillettos?Or the vitamins she bought you at the health store?Or when she brings you a her sweater on a cold morning.Or when she works on the car?OR when she cooks you cream puffs...Or when she paints her toes naked on the bed with rollers in her hair??Are these things male or female,butch of femme?Does it matter?They somtimes may be the things that do attract us ,or flip our sensual switch like no other.They are still not the reasons we love..They are just other details about whom we love.Not the whole....A small detail compared to love...
Are we a little differerant,yes,,Arent we all???I rejoice in the differances and revel in the things wet each eachother from this fact.
We are women,beautiful amazing females all.Capable of everything and anything we wish!To be and explore as we so desire.

I think at times the outer look ,the shape of things,in our society can be dwelled apon far too much.Even though,I work in the feild of beauty as an artist!!I strive to fid the balance on seeing TRUE beauty.We can loose site of our intention.The classification and analazation has become a somtimes rigid way we describe and limit ourselves in a way we may never have intended,,simply to explain and describe who we are,what we like...What we want...
I am learning myself in this way.Extreme growth and change in the last 2 years,has been a gift ,,yet difficult..Enlightening to be sure..On what are the words to describe me?Do I fit a type?Do I need to?
What has helped me ,is to see the beauty in all people,whatever the context.Is the look for the strength,the beauty inside of all people.Each person,thier journey,seperate path and the willpower we all must have to go on in our own unique way.Survive and learn from life,doing the very best we can.That is beautiful and we all do this in a differant way..We are spectacular creatures ,one and all.
As a maiden of Goddess worship and the spiritual focus on enlightenment through feminine energy of the earth,nature and the mother of all,,,,,,,,,
,I see all women as powerful,beautiful,transendant creatures....
The beauty we see in others we share and grow from within.
It is compassion to see the strength within the weakness.In ouselves and in all.
The light within the dark.
The sweet within the sour.
To look for balance in ourselfes first,blessing others with the wish they find the same.
Beauty and balance surface and within.Living and loving ,above and below!
Is any of this Butch or Femme?Bi-sexual/lesbian?
Yes we will allways analize and ,catagorise and I will suffer to find balance with my heart as well as my curious intectual mind to listen to my heart,remember what is important.
See what is beautiful,inside and out....

Thanks for reading,suffering my spelling and opening your heart.
Blessed be all.
Livelovelaughlearn
Luna

~~~~~~~~~She~~~~~~~~~
She is an angel I do adore,her spirit ,body and mind.
She is a woman I appreciate,loving,unique and kind.
She is genuine to her center,she gives love to all she knows.
She is a female Goddess incarnate for whom my love still grows.
She shares deeply with her friends,inside open loving arms.
She treasures her beloved,with her sweet infectious charm.
She speaks from her heart ,with intention to cause no harm.
She notices the light in life, where others may see dark.
She listens to all others,a reseptive ear she allways gives.
She holds her self to integrity ,with wich she strives to live.
She has suffered injustice,yet turned experience into strength.
She is a gentle whisper or deafening truth without length.
She shares sweet compassion, as she gives her heart to love.
She a dearest gift of our Goddess ,as below so now above.
She is beautiful and spectacular,sensual and dear her youth.
She has the best intentions each day, of all the Goddess truth.
She is dark as the turbulent sea,or as light as a ray of sun.
She is as she needs to be,as life calls her she does not run.
I see patience in her ways,contemplation in her quiet.
I see fire in her eyes and the passion driven pilot.
She is an amazing Goddess,in every breath she takes.
She is the ultimate maiden beauty,fertility and grace.
I see her inner balance,she searches for each day.
I respect her in all things,her loving sister ways.
Blessed are her friends,she is a sister sweet for whom I Pray.
She be a constant in my life ,forever ,allways and today.

Luna

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But I'm married!

Val — Thu, 16 Mar 2006 19:52:42 GMT

For a long time. Even back when I was teen, it was lovely Ana I watched as we were marching across the field for band practice... me with my flute, her with her clarinet. So close, so close and yet so far.
Recently I found out what it is like to be with a woman and I never want to go back. But he is a good guy. She is sweet. He supports me financially, she understands why I cry. He is a loving father to our children, she is good to hers. So where to go from here? I can't imagine not loving a woman ever again. I just can't.

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Roll call

Randy — Tue, 28 Mar 2006 19:06:59 GMT

Club Gossip

Saturday April 1st
1st Saturday’s of the month
Club Gossip

This month Club Gossip pays homage to the women of the 80’s

Tribute 2
LADIES OF THE 80’s
Cindi Lauper / Pat Benatar / Madonna / Siouxsie / Blondie / Joan
Jett / Janet Jackson / Go Go’s / Annie Lennox / Debbie Gibson /
Samantha Fox / Cher / Tina Turner / Kim Wilde / Nina Hagen / Toni
Basil / Salt N Pepa

DJ’s:
Melting Girl (Death Guild / 1984)
Shon (Rocket)
Low Life (New Wave City / 1984)
D.O.M.G. (compulsion)

Visuals: Channel ONE

Cat Club 1190 Folsom st. @ 8th
Doors @ 9:30pm free b4 10 & $6 after
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Tired of watching VH1 I love the 80’s? Come and experience it!

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Girls/Guys - what's the difference

Kali-Raw — Mon, 27 Feb 2006 03:54:07 GMT

Hi everyone,

I'm new to this tribe, so please forgive me if this is a topic that has been discussed before and people don't want to rehash it. I was just wondering what people feel are the differences between being a man versus being with a woman. I got into this discussion with my rooommate the other night (who is very straight) about how I feel like I get completely different things from the two.

The ancient Greeks believed that the male/male union was the holiest union possible and that's pretty much how I feel about being with women. To generalize a bit, what I told my roommate was, when I'm with a woman, I feel like I'm worshiping, when I'm with a guy, I feel like I'm performing. Does anyone else feel this way or someway similar? Or someway different? Either way, I'd love to hear it.

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NYC Ladies Night

Kali-Raw — Sun, 12 Mar 2006 03:42:04 GMT

I'm not sure where to post this, so please don't yell at me if this is in the wrong area.

I was wondering if (at least) some of the ladies here in and around NYC would like to get together for a ladies' night out sometime. Single, in a relationship, it doesn't matter - just getting together and having a good time in a non-judgemental, open and supportive group. I was going to put this in the events area, but since I don't have a date for it, I didn't think I could. Of course, if people want to do this, we can pick a date and move it over there so we don't clog up the topics area with a geographically centered discussion. Hope to hear and meet some of you.

Peace.

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Love me or hate me...

starry_night — Wed, 01 Mar 2006 01:41:46 GMT

...but please be nice about it.

Last weekend this beautiful woman approached me in the dressing rooms of a fashion store.
She told me she watched me come in with my male friend and liked me. I didn't get it. She said it twice.
She was intense, she got my attention. I didn't know what to say. I helped her pick the jacket that looked best on her. I watched her walk out never to see her again, but I felt like something was missing.

I've been straight all my life. Married, a kid. Except now I remember in high school I had this thing going on with this girl. I got HELL for it (that was way before all the gay rights thing.) So I tucked it away, in shame, and forgot.
Now, I don't know what I am anymore. I'm apprehensive but I'm not scared. I want to find out who I really am, make friends.

I invite your comments.

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this is sick!!!!! a candidate to the Senate want to have gay behavior punishable by Death penalty!

vero — Fri, 10 Mar 2006 15:12:07 GMT

http://worldnetdaily.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=49135

SICK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I need to find an older woman...

Sun, 26 Feb 2006 19:58:10 GMT

....where can I find one??? I'm so desperate to find a woman who is older than me and could be my lover....but how can I do that??? Can somebody help me?

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The Meaning of Femme

theghostis — Sun, 12 Feb 2006 06:39:54 GMT

In a world where stereotypes still rule yet we are expected to defy them all the same, definitions can be difficult to come by. Or rather these definitions are fluid and difficult to pin down. They may not even matter. But I was wondering, what is the meaning of "femme" ? Is femme only one side of a set of opposites--butch/femme? How is it independent? When I envision femme, I envision a female who almost parodies feminitity in her excess. She is costumed and painted. She might look like a greaser's girlfriend, with jet black hair, scarlet lips and 1950s style. Is femme a state of mind/being, or rather, is it an external expression of feminitiy? And how many femmes are attracted to other femmes?

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any one ever used :it's just coffee online dating site???

vero — Fri, 24 Feb 2006 06:25:33 GMT

Just found this in an old email from tribe and i was wondering if any one ever used it.
thanks
Vero

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deletion

Wed, 22 Feb 2006 07:22:48 GMT

so i posted a beautiful pic on here
and it got deleted
geezus.....
sorry peeps
email for copies cause im pisse that they are censoring what we can see
we are fuckin adults yo!

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wanna read my lyrics about lesbian heart ache?

Tue, 14 Feb 2006 23:40:28 GMT

www.myspace.com/jakstone

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hi all.

countesselizabeth — Wed, 08 Feb 2006 20:11:28 GMT

Hi, my name is Elizabeth, though my friends call me Countess. I am married wtih a 1 year old baby boy. My hubbby and i are loking for a girl that i can please! All with my husbands permission, of course, I am trying to meet a girl. Not to good at this shit though! lol

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Valentines day

Sun, 05 Feb 2006 00:37:27 GMT

Roses are red and violets are blue,
A gift thats picked out just from you.
Uniqe and lovely some are hand made.
Come and visit my website today!
www.fullcirclecreation.com
Happy Valentines day Tribe!!
xoxox

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