does anyone here know any homosexuals that have been together for life? really. i mean die together...in that they have been together for more than 15 years, happily. with regular sex. are we doomed to never last forever. i have learned that nothing lasts forever. we all change and we can't stop change. not in a bad way at all. in a sense we spend soo much energy on keeping what we think we want when we dont truely do what we want. we get tempted and we dont do anything about it. so what happens is we become someone different then we break up with whomever we are with and date their best friend because there really aren't enough lesbians on our same wave length. both my bros are gay and one has been in a relationship for over 7 years. good luck to them i love them both. but. do they have an open relationship? for obvious reasons i do not want to ask, but i figure you would have to find it somewhere else? but i would like to know who is still together. i dont know many. women get bored. we are totally fine "just hanging out"...if our gay community is going to get bigger are we going to evolve into a society that doesn't stay together longer than five years? maybe ten? is this our future? i am a true believer in love and staying together as i have had my dreams since i was little. i am just curious. and women out there...you know what its like do you not? do you get bored too easily? what is that about?