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For a long time. Even back when I was teen, it was lovely Ana I watched as we were marching across the field for band practice... me with my flute, her with her clarinet. So close, so close and yet so far.
Recently I found out what it is like to be with a woman and I never want to go back. But he is a good guy. She is sweet. He supports me financially, she understands why I cry. He is a loving father to our children, she is good to hers. So where to go from here? I can't imagine not loving a woman ever again. I just can't.
Recently I found out what it is like to be with a woman and I never want to go back. But he is a good guy. She is sweet. He supports me financially, she understands why I cry. He is a loving father to our children, she is good to hers. So where to go from here? I can't imagine not loving a woman ever again. I just can't.
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Re: But I'm married!
Thu, March 16, 2006 - 11:56 AMEver heard of polyamory, Val? ;-) sounds like it would be the perfect situation for you so long as hubby accepts it too. -
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Re: But I'm married!
Thu, March 16, 2006 - 5:53 PMWhat she said...and also:
www.polyamory.com
www.polyamory.org
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory
That might help some for starters...and the book, "The Ethical Slut",
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Re: But I'm married!
Thu, March 16, 2006 - 10:33 PMi gotta tell you (mainly just cause im still all excited and stuff)
im very happily married, and he's cool with my "bi"ness and supports me. I just had my 2nd date with a girl that i met via the net... and we had our first kiss (and then our second and our third, lol... but all clothes stayed on) it was awesome. So, if your hubby can be cool with it... then go for it!!! -
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Re: But I'm married!
Mon, March 20, 2006 - 1:40 PMAh, but what to do when DH can't share?
Do we wrap a rubber band around that part of out soul and let that something inside us turn black and fall off?
Do we turn our family on it's ear and "ruin everything" for our own "selfishness"...?
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Re: But I'm married!
Tue, March 21, 2006 - 12:54 AMPeople can recover from the latter, but the former not so much. :-(
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Re: But I'm married!
Tue, March 28, 2006 - 8:25 PMYes, I know a lot about polyamoury, but he is absolutely sure it won't happen in our family. He is not willing to share me with anyone, and got sooo jealous of my girlfriend. He has been seriously hurt. How can I hurt a person I love? I don' t know. I might just hurt a guy who will give me everything I want. It seems wrong.
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Re: But I'm married!
Wed, March 29, 2006 - 12:15 PMObviously not "everything" you want, tho. Sometimes the wants and needs of even people who love each other very much conflict. IMHO, if he loved you, he could put it aside and give you a little space to explore, seeing as it's not like you don't love him or are looking for anything more right now than just that, exploration.
But that's just me...I have little respect for jalousy (in myself or others), so take it as you will.
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Re: But I'm married!
Tue, March 28, 2006 - 1:28 PMVal I have no advice for you.
But I share deeply what you must be feeling.
Maybe we can talk sometime.
xoxo
